6 Lessons I learned by ditching my cell phone
Are you Sirius? Living on the edge, planning ahead, hard wires for hard bodies.
Here’s what we’ll learn in this article:
1. How to sit with the fear of the unknown
2. How to let others feel uncomfortable
3. Plan ahead, or live on the edge
4. Technological Self-sufficiency
5. How does not having a phone lead to a stronger body?
6. Why we don’t miss out when we abandon our cell phones
7. How to JOIN the waitlist for the next version of EMF 101
Γνῶθι σαυτόν. (Know thyself)
-inscribed near the entrance to the temple of Apollo
In my past life as a computer salesman, a cell phone was a necessity. This convenience eventually became a crutch, as never missing a chance to sell became an endless rampage of calls that would eventually have me miss out on the opportunity of life itself.
I eventually quit my job and ditched my phone for a simpler life. That’s a different story for another day.
Some things aren’t worth giving up. Cell phones aren’t on that list.
Knowledge is a resource so many of us seek, yet give up when we, like
says, “outsource our brains” to the computers we hold in our hands. We often forget that it’s wisdom that teaches us our lessons in the end.We’ve over-fished our cognitive oceans, only to escape the day with a paltry meal of instant gratification that doesn’t feed us, or teach another, how to fish.
Rather than defer mundane and profound queries to our memory, we’ve capitulated to an artificially intelligent challenger in a New York Minute of total surrender.
Hey Google:
“How can I get pregnant?”
“Why am I so tired all of the time?”
“How do I boil water?”
Don’t submit.
STOP the insanity.
“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.”
Welcome the chaos of not knowing instead.
Only then will you have order in your life.
You see, we don’t always need to have all the answers. Sometimes not having them is the answer.
Not having a cell phone has allowed me to embrace the unknown and has let most of my previous addictions find a quiet resting place.
Chief of all these temptations was the need to control. I needed to command each outcome with keystrokes, otherwise I felt like life was out of my hands.
But was it?
Rather than search my soul for answers, I acceded to searching google instead.
Now life is quite different, and quite quiet.
I have learned to comfortably feel uncomfortable. Won’t you join me?
Lesson 1 - Sitting with the Fear of the Unknown
I couldn’t remember the name of a middle-eastern dish the other day, and I waited for a few minutes to see if it would pop into my brain. I grew impatient, so I asked a colleague:
“What’s the name of that side dish that has lentils, couscous, lots of parsley?”
He replied with a….”Uh…uh…Give me a second…”
Both of us tried to remember. All of a sudden I heard a Canadian say “eh (AY), which prompted my total recall of a culinary world.
The word popped in.
I ran to my friend, howling like a mad banshee, “Tabboule! It’s tabboule!”
Lesson 2 - Sitting with others’ fears of the Unknown
In years past, if I forgot to tell my wife something before I left the house, or had a question for her, my instant reaction was to call. If I was going to be home later than expected, I would immediately want to get in touch so that she wasn’t worried.
Now I’ve learned to sit with the discomfort of her not knowing. If anything urgent arises, I send her an email from a local library computer or the farm that’s on the way home. Setting these boundaries has increased confidence in each other and has let us let go… of control.
After all, if your dog loves you, it’ll always come home.
Lesson 3 - Plan ahead, or live on the edge
When you embrace the unknown, you then have to accept… not knowing.
One day I was on my way to pick up some business cards and forgot what time the store closed. Too late - I was on the road, and I always have a short list of other things I can do if something else doesn’t work into my schedule. I lucked out as they were still open. I’ve since learned the hard way to check in advance.
I also remember how to get to places very well now. The other day I drove out to a meeting, and had memorized the map of the country roads in my head. I didn’t need to refer to my box of road maps in the glove compartment, although that’s also a part of the adventure of living on the edge.
My wife and I love our maps, which we picked up for free at CAA (Canadian AAA), but she doesn’t let me use them that often because they end up looking like a busted accordion by the time I fold them up.
Lesson 4: - Builds Self-sufficiency
Not having Mr. Google tell you how to get places not only builds confidence in your own inner Master and Commander, but your memory of everything increases as a result as well. I can recall people’s phone numbers, and my own passwords, with little issue.
My black book is in my brain. Come and take it.
I don’t submit photos to the cloud anymore, but have them loaded on a memory chip from a real camera (yes they still exist) that only I control. I also don’t take those photos for granted anymore and appreciate each Kodak moment.
Plus, do you know how much easier it is to literally stick a chip in the computer to download your photos, rather than waiting for the internet to do it for you?
It’s literally instantaneous.
Lesson 5 - Hard bodies hard wire
When I hit the keystrokes, I type from a place of power. I stand with my knees slightly bent, and my head looking straight ahead at the monitor, rather than hunched over like Quasimodo. Years ago, I started out standing for a couple hours each day, now I can stand for 8 hours straight no problem. Not having a wireless connection also helps my nervous system not be in a chronically-stressed state when typing.
When we’re in an upright posture, and our spine is erect, our brain can receive more blood and oxygen as a result, which lets us, dare I say…think!
When we stand in a position of power, this signals to our brain that we are in control. Being a good leader isn’t about being reactive or aggressive, hitting the dislike button on your enemy - it’s about scrolling right past their feed while you build your own army with pen, paper, and a desktop connection.
Research by social psychologist Amy Cuddy has shown1 that by “power posing” our testosterone levels increase, while reducing the stress hormone cortisol.
Many a good ole’ grandma, talking on their copper-landlines, have more testosterone than some of those meatheads in the gym in their prison cell phones.
Many of us take our fingers for granted. Our hands are exquisitely linked to the rest of our brain and neural circuitry, so when we type we dampen our cognitive abilities. This is why you’ll see many musicians or artists with increased gray matter in their cerebellum, as they are activating different regions of their brain with not only their minds, but bodies as well. Brains of jazz artists were shown2 to have increased blood flow to their medial prefrontal cortex, which exerts top-down executive control in the brain.
Lesson 6 - I miss out on some things, but I get everything.
Do you remember TV shows or movies from the eighties where certain characters would just sit on a park bench, like Forrest Gump, and zone out? When’s the last time you noticed anyone sit on a chair or in a park and just stare into space?
Children, along with many adults, don’t know how to be bored. Instead of zoning out, they get themselves locked in the twilight cell phone zone of no return.
Like a colleague of mine recently told me – children don’t know how to live “vertically” anymore, and instead are trapped on the horizontal plane. We’ve lost touch with our sense of Divine wonder, the stars above, and have submitted to a Siri which will only gives us dooms of fortune. If we give up our mind power, we’ll only know Siri, and never appreciate Sirius.
Living vertically allows us to build the relationship we have with ourselves, and as a result lets others do the same. For instance, my friends know that if they send me an email, I’m likely not to get back to them right away. Because I’ve trained myself not to react in the twinkling of an eye, I have conditioned them to reach me through two long-forgotten modes of communication:
a) Email – I know, it’s so 1990s of me.
When responding via email, I can remain more present, composing longer, more thoughtful messages, in a safer, faster, more secure mode of communication.
b) Copper-wired landline telephone (dare I say)
With a hardwired connection, it’s easier to remain present for someone. There’s only so far I can walk or go while connected to my wall. We also have a richer experience in a true phone call. When hearing someone’s tone of voice – we’re better able to decipher their state of mind. A life-changer was letting calls go to the answering machine and calling that person back when I’m ready. Both parties benefit as a result.
I’ve also been able to maintain better relationships and conversations through eye contact, something which suffers immensely when we immerse ourselves in our cell phones. Wireless radiation has been shown to destroy our prefrontal cortex, along with areas of the brain responsible for empathic connection like the insula, which is responsible for processing emotional cues.
Bonus Lesson: Selfies don’t have a share button.
Embarrassing selfies with Kardashian fishlips are less easily shared on the web:
Love you all!
P.S. Today is 3.11.
Remember what happened 4 years ago?
Let’s ensure it never happens again by throwing away our TV, ditching our phones, and embracing the unknown - LIFE.
We are more powerful than we know.
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Personally, I am preparing to ditch my cell phone. We are building our home and this place we are to move, does not have reliable internet, nor cell service, sooooooo, we may not have a choice in the matter, but I am feeling better about the prospect. Enjoyable article. BTW, I hate the fact, the cloud owns MY pictures, I took. I will be going back to my Canon very soon!
I think the clincher (if people only knew) is the mental health rebound from ditching your cellphone and other wireless exposures. Anxiety and depression are off the charts - an unprecendented number of people rely on pharmaceutical (and other) drugs to handle their emotional/mental distress and dysfunction. Kathleen Burke wrote about her miraculous physical and mental recovery on Arthur Firstenberg's substack https://arthurfirstenberg.substack.com/p/ditchingmycellphone. It's part of the reason people won't go back to cellphones once they have become free of them.